Lorraine: good show. I have tons of female friends. We have done dinner, golfed, many things, and the end of the day they go home to their companions and I am home to mine. Just because there maybe a menu you don't have to order. Where the hell is trust anymore? Friends are friends and just friends.
Unfortunately I missed the show but I think it's possible as long as there is no sexual attraction. This may be more of an issue with men than women but if you've got a friend who you find attractive, then you've got two of the most important things for a relationship. Many couples don't have both. And infidelity is no small problem these days, while some will hook up with a stranger or a co-worker, some hook up with friends, either theirs or their mates. I've had many female friends over the years and as long as we both didn't share an attraction things were great. But the few times we did, the line would get crossed. I have never cheated on any of my partners so this situation only ever happened when I or she was single, but it did happen on occasion.
Yes. Absolutely.
ReplyDeleteAt least, in my personal experience. No agendas; no expectations; no false hopes.
As long as all parties are on the same page... and that is likely key.
Lorraine: good show. I have tons of female friends. We have done dinner, golfed, many things, and the end of the day they go home to their companions and I am home to mine. Just because there maybe a menu you don't have to order. Where the hell is trust anymore? Friends are friends and just friends.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately I missed the show but I think it's possible as long as there is no sexual attraction. This may be more of an issue with men than women but if you've got a friend who you find attractive, then you've got two of the most important things for a relationship. Many couples don't have both. And infidelity is no small problem these days, while some will hook up with a stranger or a co-worker, some hook up with friends, either theirs or their mates.
ReplyDeleteI've had many female friends over the years and as long as we both didn't share an attraction things were great. But the few times we did, the line would get crossed. I have never cheated on any of my partners so this situation only ever happened when I or she was single, but it did happen on occasion.